For the past four years I been single and dating. Meeting different guys and getting to know them has been interesting to say the least. All of them have different likes and dislikes, and no two are the same. I think to myself... I like this one for the outdoors and that one for being open minded, and then over here he is so romantic, oh and that one ever there is very creative. BUT they all have one thing in common...?
As a woman I can only guess what goes on in a mans head (or HEAD). It seams to me that he can look at a girl and find that she has tits and ass and he's turned on. Immediately he wants to get things moving forward and there he goes...?
I don't know if I'm like most girls but for me I need to look at a man. I need to look in his eyes and imagine kissing him...Day dream of kissing him...I need to want to kiss him before he...? Shoves his face into mine and ramming his tongue down my throat. That is not a kiss and it's not romantic. This does not help us girls to want to be intimate with a man.
Just as soon as I think, ok that's just the way it is now days and I need to just get over it... I met someone on line. We talk about everything...But not sex. That's a first for me, usually one of the first things I'm asked is what size bra do I wear? We talk for weeks. He sent me pictures of him and his son, and of the area that they live. He wants to met me in person...? And I think, oh no here we go again...?
We met late one night, after I get off work and then drive three hours to his town. He kisses me here on the cheek and then later on the neck... Just a little... Not fast... Not rude... Not pushy. He is leaving me wanting more and I kept thinking about what it would be like. The next day we went for a drive. He took me around to show me the area. I love the country life with the mountains, trees, and water. It's beautiful. He takes me to a lake were as a kid he had his first kiss.
We are setting there looking at this pretty lake. The water is calm and there was a boat off in the distance. I was just enjoying the moment when...? It happened...? I jerked my head back and then...? I thought oh wait... ummm... This is different...ummm...ahhh...oh yummy. My breathing changed... My ears were hot and my toes and fingers were tingling. Oh yeah... That's the way it's done. Mercy...
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You captured the magic of that first kiss so eloquently.
And... boy do I understand what you're talking about. What matters most is whether or not you are there mentally.. in the moment.. waiting for it. Good job!!
You write beautifully!
I have had only one positive 'dating' experience since my last love found a new path to walk. Sometimes women can be a pain too.
shandi: Thanks, I was hoping to relay the feeling that I was having at the time. I'm happy that came through.
buffalo: Thank you so much. I've been looking at your blogs for the past few weeks and have really enjoyed them.
Dating is very difficult for me. I don't think anyone truely wants to hurt anyone...but it does happen. Sometimes when I'm looking for love and I think I see it... I run the other way because I'm afraid I will get hurt again.
That is EXACTLY how it's done. Smart man, that!
introspectre: Oh yeah... I think that is my Mr. Wonderful. Time will tell.
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