wanna play
yes
but there are no rules
ok
shandi's story about her 20's reminded me of this story. When I was first single I didn't want a serious relationship but I did enjoy the fringe benefits. Nick was glad to oblige. Soon after we started he wanted to add to our sex life by adding people. He had some friends that played the game and he wanted us to join them. Nick wanted to be sure that I wasn't going to get jealous and let me know that there were no rules to who can touch who. (Or is it whom?) This was fine by me.
We arrived at Frank and Mary's, entering the family room where there was a unique way of introduction. Nick raised my shirt for Frank to see my breasts and Nick tells him,"she's cool...you can touch." Frank looks at me and asks if it's ok... I smile and say, "Yes." Frank holds my breast and caresses me gently, give me a kiss on the lips and then a kiss with his tongue, then down to my breast with his tongue and his lips. Later we go through the same steps with Mary... Mary really likes being with other girls. Nick had mentioned this to me and so I wasn't surprised. I'm thinking this is going to be fun.
We're all visiting in the living room and my drink is empty. I get up to get another and ask if I can get anything for anyone else, Frank offers to help me. As we are getting the empties into the trash, we decide to go take out the trash. While taking out the trash, things get trashy. When I get back to the house, it's obvious that he's been looking for me. He asks me where I have been. I say, "Taking out the trash." "What does that mean?", he says. I smile, raise my eyebrow three times, put my finger on the side of my mouth pushing imaginary cum into my mouth licking my finger. He tells me, "From now on, don't do anything with anyone unless I'm around."
We had both anticipated that I might be a problem going into this; that I wouldn't be able to handle it emotionally. Niether one of us ever imagined that he would have the problem. We tried again on several occassions to play but unsuccessfully. I don't believe that most people can handle going into an open relationship with out feelings getting in the way.
To this day, Nick questions whether or not this couple has contacted me to play. We have remained friends but can never have a relationship because neither one of us trusts the other.
4 comments:
It is somewhat ironic that although it is usually the man that talks his lady into playing it is usually the man who suffers the pangs of jealousy - at least when jealousy rears it's ugly head.
I can only think of one time when it was the woman that was jealous.
Excellent post, Teri. The graphics at the top of the essay are really eye catching, btw
buffalo: I didn't know what to expect going into this. It was very interesting to set back and watch people doing this. Everyone had a different comfort level and it showed on their faces. Some had been doing this for a while but still were having problems with it.
Thank you...Graphics is like eye candy. I like it and it's fun.
Teri, who talked who into this? It seemed to me you were more comfortable with it them him. I can't believe the idiot wanted to delve into something like that and then get all jealous about it. Guy sounds like a moron. Funny about these things, they either strengthen the trust between two people or utterly destroy it.....never have I seen it work in the grey area between.
the michael: He talked me into it. It was crazy. I wanted to tell him to shut the f*** up. You're not my partner, your my toy. He was strong going in and telling me to remember that we are not a couple...yeah whatever.
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